Get a Girlfriend - 4: Decisive

Decisive


You have to be very decisive. Don't hesitate. Not even for a second.

Especially when someone asks you about your opinion. Never say: "I don't care" or "Whatever you want". It makes you look like an uncertain person, without a plan in his life. Someone who follows his desires is much more attractive. A person who knows what he wants appears more intelligent and wise.

Many people hesitate in a conversation when the other person says something they don't agree with. They try to compromise or they even pretend to agree, only to please. Don't do that, it makes you look weak. Don't be afraid to contradict and express your own opinion. Just never force your opinion on others, even if you know for a fact that you are correct. A kind explanation is the best you can do.

Always ready


Don't let chances slip by - take every chance immediately. Sometimes, all you have is a few minutes, a minute or even just a moment to take a chance to do or to say something. Take it! Immediately! You will never regret if you take it and you will always regret if you don't. Every chance you take will give you courage, you will feel proud of yourself, regardless of the outcome. You will grow more and more confident and every next chance will be easier to take.

You should always seize the moment. When an opportunity presents itself, seize it in an instant. Taking a chance and seizing the moment is similar, but not the same. The difference: If you are talking with several people and someone asks for a gum, you only get one chance to offer it, before someone else does. If you are at a party and you talk to the same girl on different occasions, you have several opportunities to ask her on a date. If you rely on the fact that there will always be another opportunity in the same evening, it may very well happen that you will miss it - so seize the moment when the opportunity presents itself!

Be a person of great resolve and determination. If you desire something, when you decide to do something, never ever give up on it. Follow it trough to the end. Be someone with great character and integrity, someone people can rely on.