How can a girl get a boyfriend

How can a girl get a boyfriend


Every strand of thought on previous pages comes from personal experience. Every advice comes from a mistake I made and from what I learned from it. But I haven't given a lot of thought about how a girl can get a guy. These are just a few personal opinions. Take them as you see fit...

Besides being a good human being, a generally nice person with a positive attitude and a healthy lifestyle:

Be interesting to talk to. You should know much about a guy's favorite topic and have a sense of humor. You can also make a joke, not just laugh at his. What is a guy's favorite topic? That can vary wildly... cheering for sport teams (basketball, football, hockey, ...), all kinds of machines (cars, motorbikes, planes, ...), doing sports (snowboarding, mountain-biking, windsurfing, ...), movies, TV series (Star Wars, Star Trek, Lord of the Rings, Matrix, Game of Thrones, ...), comics (Superman, Batman, Spiderman, ...), books (The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Lord of the Rings, A Song of Ice and Fire, Wheel of time, A Wizard of Earthsea, The Alchemist, The Celestine Prophecy, A Brief History Of Time ...) and games (Mass Effect, Dragon Age, The Witcher, ...).

Be punctual and reliable. Don't be late. If you know that you absolutely need two hours to get ready and you come home from work / school at 6 o'clock and he suggest you meet at 8 o'clock, ask him if you can meet 15 minutes or half an hour later. It is better than being late! If you agree to do something, then don't forget to do it. It means a lot if someone can rely on you.

The chase. Even though almost every man complains about the chase and says how he wishes things could be simpler, everything would be wore without the chase. The guy would have nothing to be proud of. He would feel like a hunter catching a tortoise and not a rabbit. And besides, if you serve him everything on a silver platter you will appear desperate. Be a little mysterious, flirt in a way that he'll have to guess whether you are joking or not. Just don't overdo it - don't play games with him, don't play hard to get. That is going overboard. Don't be a snob.

Most important (and sadly, encoded in men's genes) is the appearance. I am not saying it is fair, but it is true. Since the beginning of the 21st century the whole world is trying to convince everyone that looks don't matter. The fact is that even if you find a guy who believes this (and you can have a very hard time finding one who is honest about it) - if you put two girls in front of him who are identical in every possible way except in appearance, he will pick the one that is more attractive. If looks really didn't matter (like it does not matter if you put on the left sock fist and then the right one or the other way around) then he wouldn't care... Go running as often as you can, drink lots of water, eat healthy (as little sweets as possible, lost of fruits and vegetables), take care of your hair, and "don't use makeup" (that means: use your "no-makeup" makeup), dress nicely, ...